13 best thrusting dildos and vibrators 2026, reviewed by Glamour's sexual wellness writer
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Thrusting dildos and vibrators can seem a little intense at first glance. We get it, you’re curious, in the same way you’re curious about anal sex toys or triple-stimulation vibrators, but they can feel daunting to say the least. That’s why you need your besties to hold your hand and gently talk you through it all.
The best thrusting dildos and vibrators can genuinely transform your solo sessions. Not only do they allow you to sit back and let technology do the work for you — as it absolutely should — but they’re also guaranteed to expand your sex toy horizons in the best possible way.
No, thrusting dildos won’t replicate penetrative sex exactly, but they come closer than even the best G-spot vibrator. And, honestly? They’re a brilliant experience in their own right.
“A thrusting vibrator is an insertable toy that provides an in-and-out motion for penetrative play,” explains Lisa Finn, Sex Educator at Babeland. “Instead of relying on manual thrusting with your own hands, these toys use a motor to create that pumping or stroking sensation for you. Most use a shaft that extends and retracts, while some — often called ‘pulsators’ — use magnet technology to generate a back-and-forth motion.”
“Because a motor controls the motion, it maintains a reliable, consistent rhythm throughout your session,” she continues. “This can feel especially satisfying for internal hot spots like the G-spot or prostate, helping you find the perfect tempo — without tired wrists.”
So settle in; we’re here to walk you through the best thrusting dildos and vibrators out there, from options designed for vaginas to those made for butts, with multiple speeds and patterns, warming functions, and more. And if anything feels intimidating, just ask us (or our lovely experts) for advice. We gotchu.
How I test the best thrusting vibrators and dildos:
I’ll admit it: testing the best thrusting vibrators and dildos is a little easier than some of my other sex toy assignments, since, let’s be real, they do most of the work for you. That said, a job is a job, even when it’s enjoyable at times. Testing thrusting sex toys involves trying a wide range of products from different brands and then rounding up the very best.
But it isn’t just about my opinion. I want to capture every perspective on thrusting dildos and vibrators. That’s why the Glamour team — plus their helpful partners — are put to work, testing a variety of pulsating toys in real-life scenarios.
I then combine their findings with feedback from my friends, who are roped into the challenge as well, and insights from online reviews, so that we cover all our bases. Everyone’s solo sessions look different, and that’s totally fine. Some people love realistic thrusting dildos, while others prefer a subtler approach. Obviously, it's always combined with the best water-based lubes.
Each vibrator was rated against the following criteria:
- Ease of use — Could they work out the control panel without a cover-to-cover read of the instruction manual?
- Speed and intensity of orgasm — Did it provide pleasurable sensations, or simply numb them?
- Design — Was it ergonomic, easy to hold and fit for purpose?
- Settings — Was there enough variety? Any unique patterns we haven't seen before?
- Volume — Could it count as a quiet vibrator? AKA, would you finish to passive aggressive texts from your flatmate?
- Waterproof — Did it work effectively in the bath and/or shower?
Why you can trust me:
This ain’t my first rodeo, folks. I’ve been writing about sexual wellness for over three years, which yes, involves reviewing a lot of sex toys. From G-spot vibrators to anal toys, clit suckers to sex games, I’ve been the sheriff in this town for a while now.
But it’s not just about trying different toys; the sexual wellness industry is constantly evolving. Every week brings something new: dating apps for married couples, long-distance sex toys, completely waterproof vibrators… you name it. I stay on top of it all by attending press events, tracking emerging research, testing the latest launches, and speaking directly with leading sex experts and brand founders.
I write from the perspective of a bisexual woman, but I always aim to consider all genders, orientations, and identities when forming my verdicts. Great sexual wellness advice should be inclusive, informed and genuinely useful to everyone.
While I test as many products as I can get my grubby hands on, if something isn’t accessible, I rely on trusted brands or robust user-generated feedback. My ultimate goal? To help you get the absolute best out of your bedroom experience — whether that’s solo, partnered or anywhere in between.
Ahead, the best thrusting dildos and vibrators for 2026, approved by Glamour's sexual wellness writer:
Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator
In the box: USB-charging cord, a satin storage pouch and a detailed instruction manual.
Material: Latex-free, phthalate-free silicone.
Length: 10 inches
Insertable length: 5.5 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 60 minutes.
Modes: 3 speeds and 9 patterns of vibration for up to 36 possible vibration combinations.
Waterproof: Submersible.This sleek silicone G-spot vibrator features a curved, thrusting shaft that lets the bulbous head hit all the right spots, while the clitoral stimulator’s clever rabbit ears-and-nose design ensures your clit gets full attention. It’s whisper-quiet, and with a handy travel lock, it’s perfect for keeping things steamy on the go. Trust me, this is the quietest vibrator to rival all quiet vibrators.
One thing to keep in mind: if you prefer a softer, sleeker silicone, the Greedy Girl might feel a bit too firm.
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Pros & ConsPros- Dual motors for mind-blowing G-spot and clitoral stimulation.
- 36 different modes — we’re basically living in The Matrix.
- Great for penetration — works for most bodies.
Cons- Vibrations could be a bit stronger.
- On the harder side — might not be comfortable for everyone.
In the box: G-spot vibrator, USB charging cable, satin storage pouch, warranty registration card and instruction manual.
Material: Body‑safe silicone and ABS plastic.
Length: 7.7 inches.
Insertable length: 4.4 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 2 hours.
Modes: USB rechargeable.
Waterproof: 100%.This list wouldn’t be complete without a LELO toy, and lucky for us, the Mona Wave falls firmly into the thrusting vibrator category. It rises and falls inside you like a lover’s fingers, guiding you toward an intense G‑spot orgasm.
Simple to switch on and off, and built to last — many users report enjoying theirs for years. And even if you do wear her out with frequent use, you’re covered by LELO’s five-year warranty. The real star, though, is the Wave technology. It rises and falls in such a stunning, sensual rhythm, it’s genuinely hard to resist. It might even steal the LELO SWITCH-sized spot in my heart…
Pros & ConsPros- Rises and falls like a wave — or like your lover's fingers.
- This one’s in it for the long haul: plenty of users report 5+ years of solid use.
- Buttons are well placed for ease of use.
Cons- Those sensitive to curved designs might find the shape a little rough.
- Settings and controls aren’t the most intuitive.
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Best thrusting wand vibrator
Do It All Thrusting Wand and G-Spot Vibrator
In the box: Dual-ended vibrator, USB charging cable and instruction manual.
Material: Body‑safe silicone and ABS plastic.
Length: 10.5 inches.
Insertable length: 5.5 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: approximately 60 minutes.
Modes: 13 functions.
Waterproof: Yes.A wand vibrator and a G‑spot vibrator fused into one… that also thrusts. Does it get any better than this? Start by warming up the clit with some classic magic wand vibes, then flip to the thrusting end for some internal stimulation. Thanks to its versatility, this is an excellent sex toy for couples, as you can use it for every stage of foreplay, for both of you.
The sleek black design keeps it subtle if anyone ever snoops in your bedside drawer — but fair warning, it can also make hunting for it in dim lighting a bit of an adventure.
Pros & ConsPros- Two ends, double the fun!
- Ribbed along the G‑spot shaft to heighten every sensation.
- Its silky-soft silicone makes it ideal for exploring all over the body.
- The thrusting motion delivers incredible internal stimulation.
Cons- Vibrations can transfer to your hand, which may reduce comfort during extended play.
- If you’re after maximum power, this isn’t the wand for you.
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Best thrusting egg vibrator
Vulse App-Controlled Thrusting Egg Vibrator
In the box: Egg vibrator, charging cable, instructional manual and storage bag.
Material: Body‑safe silicone.
Length: 8.09 inches.
Insertable length: 3.35 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 65 minutes.
Modes: App‑controlled thrusting, vibration, and unlimited pattern customisation via the Lovense app (remote, music sync, sound & motion activation).
Waterproof: Fully waterproof (IPX7) for use in water and easy cleaning.Some people struggle with the girth and fullness of many thrusting dildo options, which is where an egg vibrator like this one comes in. It delivers the same thrusting experience but with a slimmer profile, focused directly on the G-Spot.
This G-Spot vibrator offers a truly unique sensation, combining rapid thrusting motions with powerful vibrations. It can reach up to 120 strokes per minute — quicker than any fingers I’ve ever experienced, for sure.
It’s app-controlled, so you can enjoy this long-distance sex toy with a partner or even sync your toys together. Technology really is the best! The Lovense app also offers Group Control. It’s completely optional, but let’s just say: it can bring your group chat to a whole new level…
Pros & ConsPros- Connects to the Lovense app for remote control and access to unlimited patterns.
- With a smaller girth, it’s a great option for beginners or anyone who prefers less fullness.
- The curved shape makes insertion effortless and helps keep the toy comfortably in place.
Cons- For what you get, the price point is on the higher side.
- The highest power modes left a few users wanting more.
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Thrust 'N' Grind Thrusting and Vibrating Grinder
In the box: Thrust N’ Grind Silicone Grinder pad, remote control and charging cable.
Material: Body-safe silicone and ABS plastic.
Length: 9.3 inches.
Insertable length: About 4 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 1 hour.
Modes: 4 speeds and 7 vibration patterns.
Waterproof: IPX6 splashproof (safe for shower play but not full submersion).Sex chairs are expensive and take up space — two things none of us have to spare these days. Enter the Thrust ‘N’ Grind: a budget-friendly alternative that turns any chair into a full-on sex machine. Ride the saddle and feel the ribbed texture hit all the right internal and external spots.
The remote control means zero faffing about with buttons mid-ride, making it perfect for solo sessions or for sharing the fun with a partner. Hand over the remote and let them take the reins, or combine it with a helping hand… or other body part.
Compact and easy to stash under the bed or in a cupboard, this thrusting vibrator also scores major style points in its gorgeous lilac hue. The only thing it’s missing? A removable dildo to make it even more discreet and versatile.
Pros & ConsPros- Ribbed textures throughout for the most elevated experience imaginable.
- Can be taken in the shower and cleaned easily.
- Rechargeable pad + remote = hands-free fun, fully charged.
- Compact and discreet, yet powerful enough to turn almost any surface into a sex chair.
Cons- The material could be softer, especially for grinding.
Love Motion Remote Control Warming Thrusting Sex Machine Set
In the box: Remote‑controlled thrusting sex machine, USB charging cable, two different silicone dildo attachments (one realistic textured & one non‑realistic G‑spot‑targeting), and remote control.
Material: Body‑safe silicone.
Length: 7 inches and 7.5 inches.
Insertable length: 6.5 inches and 7 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 60 minutes.
Modes: 10 thrusting functions and 10 vibration functions.
Waterproof: Not at all.This thrusting dildo vibrator set comes with two dildos — one realistic and textured, the other curved for perfect G-spot targeting — plus a machine that does the thrusting for you. The remote control lets you cycle through 10 vibration modes and 10 thrusting patterns, and if you like, you can switch on the warming function for an even more lifelike experience.
It might take a minute to figure out all the settings, but once you do, finishing… well, that won’t take long at all.
We especially love that it caters to everyone — whether you’re all about realistic thrusting dildos or prefer something a bit more subtle. Someone call Hannah Montana, because this set truly gives you the best of both worlds.
“What makes the Love Motion Thrusting Sex Machine special is how realistic and customisable it feels,” explains Annabelle Knight, Sex and Relationships Expert at Lovehoney. “With 10 thrusting patterns and 10 vibration modes, you can tailor the speed and intensity to suit your mood, from slow and teasing to powerful and rhythmic. Add in the remote control and strong suction base for hands-free play, and its real USP is that it combines movement, warmth and vibration in one immersive, confidence-boosting experience.”
Pros & ConsPros- It’s also warming and can reach a toasty 40°C.
- The suction-cup base holds firm so you can go full cowgirl without worry.
- Fully USB rechargeable — for both the machine and the remote. Because usually, the remote never is.
- Travel lock included, so it stays put whether at home or away.
Cons- More inclusivity in sizing would ensure everyone can enjoy it comfortably.
- Note: some surfaces might not hold the suction-cup firmly.
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Best thrusting sex toy for men
Svakom Alex Neo App Controlled Thrusting Male Masturbator
In the box: Alex Neo 2 automatic masturbator, USB charging cable, user manual.
Material: Body‑safe TPE (inner sleeve) with ABS/PC and metal components.
Length: 11.8 inches.
Insertable length: 5.4 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 1.5 hours.
Modes: 7 thrusting modes with adjustable strength and app control for interactive patterns.
Waterproof: Sleeve (insertable part) is waterproof when removed; device body is not waterproof.Made for those with a penis, this stroker features a nodule-lined sleeve for texture and seven auto-thrusting modes for a realistic experience. It can also be controlled via an app, letting a partner take the reins from a distance, or sync it with videos for hands-free fun. Many male masturbators cost far more than this, so you really do get bang for your buck.
Unlike some other sex toys for men, this one is sleek and not overtly graphic. The inner sleeve is removable and waterproof, making it easy to clean with your favourite sex toy cleaner.
Since this is a thrusting sex toy, and I don’t exactly have the right equipment to test it myself, but one Lovehoney shopper had rave things to say: “Excellent orgasm every time. Somebody finally made a toy that actually strokes your penis. I encourage everybody to buy this thing. It's that good. Somebody finally figured out that a penis doesn't orgasm from vibrations. It orgasms from being stroked—relentlessly.”
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Pros & ConsPros- Nodules inside the sleeve add delicious texture.
- It can also be controlled via an app, so a partner can take the reins from afar, or sync it up with videos for hands-free fun.
- Flexible sleeve stretches to accommodate a wide range of users.
- The inner sleeve is removable and waterproof, making cleaning a breeze.
Cons- If you’re on the larger side, it can get a bit stuck and may need a firmer grip.
- Some users report the sleeve can develop small holes after a few washes.
In the box: Rabbit vibrator, remote control, USB charging cable and instruction manual.
Material: Body‑safe silicone.
Length: 9.6 inches.
Insertable length: 5.1 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 45-60 minutes.
Modes: 10 thrusting modes and 10 vibrating modes.
Waterproof: Fully waterproof.We were already fans of the AirVibe — easily one of the best clit suckers out there — and that gentle, blowing sensation is phenomenal. Then it got paired with a thrusting vibrator, and now it hits every spot imaginable, and probably invented a few new ones along the way. Plus, it comes in a gorgeous pastel pink that I’m totally obsessed with.
If I had to nitpick, it would be the length. It’s just not ideal for everyone, so a little experimentation might be required to get it positioned just right.
Pros & ConsPros- The combination of thrusting and air stimulation is a winning formula.
- The speed range is varied and impressively powerful.
- Straightforward settings.
Cons- For some users, the length made it difficult for the clit sucker to line up comfortably.
- Expect to experiment a little to get the positioning just right.
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Spun Sugar Rotating Rabbit Vibrator
In the box: Rotating rabbit vibrator, USB charging cable and user guide.
Material: Body‑safe silicone with ABS plastic accents.
Length: 8.5 inches.
Insertable length: 4.5 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 90 minutes.
Modes: 10 modes.
Waterproof: 100%.I’ve seen a lot in my time advising people on how to choose a sex toy, but this one is something new. This rabbit vibrator has had a proper upgrade: it now comes with a rotating clit stimulator. Yes, put down your old clit vibrator — you might not need it for a while.
Instead of the traditional flicking rabbit ears, this clever clitoral stimulator is a solid ball of pleasure that gyrates and vibrates simultaneously. With 10 settings combining rotation and vibration, it mimics the motion of a thumb rubbing your clit — which, let’s be honest, is elite.
The neck is flexible, making it easier to adapt to your body, though the shaft is still on the wider side, so it might not be ideal for beginners. But at this price? I’d say it’s worth giving a go.
Pros & ConsPros- Great value considering all it offers.
- A rotation style that’s genuinely uncommon among similar toys.
- The toy’s flexible neck makes it easy to tailor to your body’s shape.
Cons- Magnetic USB charging… seriously, why can’t it just be a standard C plug?
- Width of both the G‑spot and clit stim sections could be overwhelming for some.
- Handle length is on the short side, affecting ease of grip.
Spinel App-Controlled Thrusting, Vibrating & Heating Dildo Machine
In the box: Main Spinel device, straight dildo attachment, curved G‑spot dildo attachment, clitoral base attachment, ultra‑strong suction cup stand, adjustable handle, USB‑C charging cable, silicone sticker and user manual.
Material: Body‑safe silicone (attachments) and durable ABS/plastic base.
Length: 5.3 inches (longest attachment) and 6.18 inches (base).
Insertable length: 5.3 inches (straight dildo), 3.44 inches (rotating dildo and 2.9 inches (curved dildo).
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 257 minutes.
Modes: Multiple thrusting and vibration levels, Turbo Mode, heating function and app‑controlled custom patterns / long‑distance play.
Waterproof: IPX6 water‑resistant (shower‑safe; not submersible).When this thrusting dildo first arrived in my mail, I won’t lie — I was a little intimidated. Thankfully, the pastel pink and blue colouring instantly calmed my nerves. Kudos to the designers for making something so dramatic feel approachable. But once you get to know the SPINEL, all that wild thrusting starts to feel a lot like a man panting behind you… only with 257 minutes of battery life.
The different attachments are like a sexual pick ‘n’ mix: straight, curved, or clitoral stimulation — the choice is yours, girlie. Plus, the suction cup lets you place this bad boy on a chair, the floor, a counter… even your shower wall. Just remember: it’s IPX6, not 7 — so splish‑splash all you want, but no dunking! It's not a waterproof vibrator.
Honestly? I’m a fan. I’ll never have to send another “You up?” text again, because I know exactly who’s waiting for me at home.
Pros & ConsPros- Comes with both a straight and a curved dildo, giving you options to please every preference.
- Suction-cup base lets you take things hands-free, wherever the mood strikes.
- It even has a handle — a rare but genuinely handy feature you don’t see often on toys like this.
- You can even sync the toy to the beat of your favourite song, because pleasure and playlists should always align.
Cons- The app can be frustratingly glitchy at the worst possible moments.
- Pretty loud — you might want to put some music on, girlie.
Lapis Double-Sided Vibrating Strapless Strap-On
In the box: Lovense Lapis strapless strap‑on, USB charging cable, user manual, storage bag.
Material: Body‑safe silicone.
Length: 9.06 inches.
Insertable length: 5.43 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 156 minutes.
Modes: Three independently controlled motors with customizable vibration speeds and patterns via the Lovense app.
Waterproof: IPX7 rating — fully waterproof for shower or bath play and easy cleaning.Two orgasms for the price of one? Don’t mind if I do. Strap-ons have come so far, especially strapless strap-ons — which sound confusing but are actually genius: a phallic-shaped vibrator you can use on a partner without any annoying harnesses digging into your thighs.
G-spot? A-spot? C-spot? Honestly, you’ll be seeing the entire alphabet with this bad boy. Text that cutie from your lesbian dating app and get the party started already.
And let’s be clear: this isn’t just a lesbian sex toy. Plenty of straight men love being pegged by their female partners, too. In that case, you’ll be making them very happy — while making yourself very, very happy at the same time.
Pros & ConsPros- Features three independently controlled motors, letting you customise vibrations, intensities, and patterns — even from afar.
- Flexible neck designed to provide comfort for both the wearer and the receiver.
- Ridged grooves for targeted clitoral stimulation, plus a curved, insertable bulb for G‑spot pleasure.
Cons- Some users have reported that it can slip out during use.
- The magnetic charger is convenient, but you’ll sometimes find the toy hasn’t fully charged.
In the box: Thrusting dildo, USB charging cable, remote control and instruction manual.
Material: Body‑safe silicone with ABS plastic components.
Length: 9.5 inches.
Insertable length: 6.5 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 60 minutes.
Modes: 2 thrusting speeds and 9 patterns.
Waterproof: Yep.Many people prefer realistic thrusting dildos over the cotton-candy pink variety, and Ann Summers is one of the strongest players in that space. The attention to detail here is genuinely impressive — compare it next to the real thing, and it starts to feel like an episode of Is It Cake?
Surprisingly, this also makes a great lesbian sex toy. It slips easily into a harness for strap-on play with a partner, but it works just as well with a male partner, too. For solo sessions, the remote control vibrator is a game-changer: you can go fully hands-free or pair it with a clit sucker for truly mind-shattering bliss.
The wide base adds an extra layer of versatility, too, meaning this realistic thrusting vibrator can also be used safely as an anal toy. Just don’t skip the lube — generously applied is the only way to go.
Pros & ConsPros- The attention to detail is genuinely impressive.
- With a suction-cup base, you can stick it down and play hands-free wherever you like.
- Can also be used in a harness for partner play.
- Remote control for easy use.
Cons- Definitely not a quiet toy.
- Lacks flexibility, which may make it feel rigid for some users.
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Thermo Thrust Remote-Control Warming and Thrusting Prostate Massager
In the box: Thrusting prostate massager, USB charging cable and instruction manual.
Material: Body‑safe silicone and hard plastic.
Length: 5.5 inches.
Insertable length: 4.5 inches.
Power: USB rechargeable.
Run time: 40 minutes.
Modes: 3 thrusting patterns and 6 vibration speeds.
Waterproof: Fully submersible.Let’s not leave him out of the thrusting vibrator fun! This is one of the best sex toys for men. While men are particularly fond of anal toys like this one — thanks to the location of their prostate (aka the male G-spot) — these toys can also be a blast for women who enjoy backdoor action. Just remember: clean thoroughly after use and never swap without proper sanitation!
This thrusting prostate massager warms up to a luxurious 44 °C, so there’s no cold shock on insertion like you sometimes get with other dildos. The remote control makes it easy to switch things up mid-play, without the struggle of tiny buttons in awkward spots.
A quick note for beginners: this is definitely not a starter anal toy. If you’re new to anal play, go for something smaller and non-thrusting first — you’ve got to work your way up with a beginner-sex toy, baby!
Pros & ConsPros- Comes with remote control, letting you or your partner switch patterns effortlessly during use.
- Warms to 44 °C, giving a lifelike touch and banishing that chilly shock.
- Totally waterproof, so you can clean it effortlessly or take it into the shower.
- “Travel lock ensures your toy stays off until you’re ready — no security shenanigans.
Cons- The two-button design is a little basic, which can limit its functionality.
- Not for beginners: try a smaller option first.
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Thrusting dildos and vibrators FAQs, answered:
Are thrusting dildos good for beginners?
“What counts as 'beginner-friendly' is unique from person to person," explains Lisa Finn, Sex Educator at Babeland. “If you’re someone who is new to toys but you know you enjoy penetration, a thrusting vibe can be a great fit – especially if you know you like that in-and-out sensation that thrusting provides.”
It can be a great beginner-friendly vibrator, as long as you know what you're looking for.
"If penetration is new territory for you and you’re curious about thrusting toys, starting with a slimmer shaft can be a more comfortable fit. When it comes to finding any beginner vibe, I always suggest choosing a toy with multiple settings so you can change the tempo or strength to explore different sensations with one toy to find what feels best for your body.”
How do I choose the best thrusting vibrator for me?
“Choosing a thrusting vibrator is about understanding what kind of sensations you enjoy, plus where you want stimulation, and how you like to play," explains Annabelle Knight, Sex and Relationships Expert at Lovehoney. "To start off, think about the type of stimulation you want. Do you want deep, rhythmic thrusts that mimic penetration? Or do you prefer more subtle in-and-out motion plus vibrations? Thrusting machines blend both, so consider how strong you want the thrust versus the vibration.”
It can be helpful to consider what you enjoy currently in solo and partner play. What motions? What extra sensations? Apply this when choosing a sex toy.
Knight continues: “Pay attention to attachments, shape and sizes. What feels comfortable varies from person to person so options with interchangeable heads or shapes can make a big difference. Think about what you enjoy with partners or solo, do you prefer thicker? Thinner? Longer? Reflect, listen and don’t be afraid to find out!”
And never forget: choose body-safe silicone or phthalate-free materials. Your body deserves the best
Can thrusting vibrators be used with a partner?
Short answer: yes, please do! “Thrusting vibrators can absolutely be a brilliant addition to partnered play," Knight shares. "They’re not about replacing intimacy, but enhancing it by adding rhythm, movement and variety you can enjoy together.
"A partner can take control of the settings, which creates a fun, teasing dynamic and keeps things interactive. Because many are hands-free, you’re both free to focus on touch, kissing and connection rather than holding the toy in place.
"Used with good communication and plenty of lube, thrusting toys can help couples explore new sensations, boost confidence and keep pleasure playful and exciting.”
Are thrusting dildos safe to use?
“Thrusting dildos are safe to use when you follow a few simple guidelines and listen to your body,” Knight explains. "Start with plenty of water-based lube to reduce friction and make movement comfortable, and begin on a slower setting so your muscles can relax into the sensation.
"Always choose toys made from body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, and clean them thoroughly before and after use to keep things hygienic. If anything feels uncomfortable, painful or 'off', stop and adjust — comfort and consent are always key.
She adds: “With mindful preparation and communication (especially with a partner), thrusting toys can be a safe, enjoyable way to explore deeper stimulation.”
What kind of lubricant should I use with a thrusting toy?
“You’ll definitely want to use lubricant with a thrusting toy,” says Finn. "Unlike body-to-body play, toys don’t create their own moisture, and the added motion from the thrusting means more friction.
“A good lube keeps everything slick and comfortable, making penetration feel much more pleasurable and helping prevent irritation so you can focus only on the good sensations.” And since most thrusting toys are made from silicone, water-based lube is your best friend.
Meet the experts:
| Annabelle Knight | Sex and Relationships Expert at Lovehoney. |
| Lisa Finn | Sex Educator at Babeland. |
