These are the very best lesbian sex toys, dildos and vibrators on the market
While there have long been plenty of sex toys for couples to try on the market, lots of them have been designed with heterosexual couples in mind. The lesbian sex toys pool has, historically, been smaller – but fast-forward to 2023, and from clit vibrators and silent vibrators to the best rabbits that money can buy, there's a burgeoning number of lesbian sex toys that will actually make you feel good.
It’s always a bit of a bummer when shopping for sex toys doesn't quite live up to your expectations, and it's even worse when the one you invest in doesn't give you quite as big of an ‘O’ as you've been looking for. It’s especially refreshing, therefore, to come across something that’s marketed specifically for you; something that suits you and your partner's sexual preferences to a T and has you singing from the rooftops - literally.
Things like strap ons and double-ended dildos are perfect for anyone with a vagina who is wanting to explore, so to persuade you even more (not that you ever need an excuse to discover something new in the bedroom) – and as self-proclaimed experts in the field of wellness – we’ve put together a curated list of the best lesbian sex toys. Think: everything from solo adventures to plus one(s) playtime.
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As always with our sex toy round-ups, we recommend you read the reviews before checking out with your brand new bedroom buddy. That said, every single one of these lesbian sex toys has more than one five-star rating (as if we'd ever recommend anything that didn't), so rest assured they're pretty damn good.
- Best strap-on for lesbian: Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 3 Realistic Dildos, £49.99, LoveHoney. Mix things up with the three flexible, versatile dildos and this strap-on harness kit. Each dildo can be used for vaginal or anal play and is realistic in shape and length for an authentic experience.
- Best lesbian sex gift: Smile Makers The Poet Suction Toy, WAS £119.95 NOW £95.95, Beauty Bay. Designed to stimulate the whole clitoris by using gentle suction and vibrations to recreate the feeling of oral sex, this toy comes with three interchangeable ‘mouths’ and five pulsation modes, plus it’s 100% waterproof. Ticks. Every. Box.
- Best dildos with vibrators for lesbians: Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator, £69.99, LoveHoney. All for one and one for all, this double-ended strapless strap-on dildo vibrator guarantees an orgasm for both you and your partner. Crafted from premium silicone, you can angle it to create the perfect pose and ensure the fun is shared.
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Ready to invest in some lesbian sex toys? Scroll down for 13 of the best we’ve come across recently.
The Two's Company Collection, WAS £208 NOW £146, Womanizer
Why we love it: Made for dual playtime, this set of sex toys is ideal for lesbian couples. The We-Vibe Touch features a sculpted design that reaches all of your pleasure points, while the Classic 2 combines Pleasure Air Technology with eight intensity levels to ensure you achieve the O of dreams.
Pros: You can both ‘get off’ at the same time.
Cons: It's pricey.
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: We-Vibe; vibrations, Classic 2; pleasure air technology.
Number of settings: The Classic 2 has 10.
Battery type: Last up to 180 minutes, both rechargeable via USB.
Waterproof? Yes, 100% for both.Be Proud Ribbed Double Ended Dildo, £25, Ann Summers
Why we love it: Perfect for couples or solo play, the 12" phallic shaped Double Ended Dildo from Ann Summers is flexible for comfortable insertion. To get the most pleasure from your experience, use with a water-based lube, sit back and enjoy the sensations.
Pros: It's sculpted to a look and feel lifelike.
Cons: Other than penetrate, it doesn't do anything.
Made from: TPE.
Technology: None.
Number of settings: 0.
Battery type: None needed.
Waterproof? Yes.Save when you shop for lesbian sex toys with these Ann Summers discount codes at checkout.
Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator, £69.99, Lovehoney
Why we love it: Not only does this strapless strap-on dildo vibrator feature two ends - for both your pleasure - it also has rabbit ears for extra sensation.
Pros: It has 8 vibration patterns and 12 speed settings.
Cons: The USB charging cable is quite short.
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: Vibrations.
Number of settings: 12.
Battery type: Lasts up to 60 minutes, rechargeable.
Waterproof? Yes.Save when you shop for lesbian sex toys with these LoveHoney discount codes at checkout.
Be Proud Ridged Double Ended Dildo, £25, Ann Summers
Why we love it: Each end of this dildo has been created with graduated bead for heightened stimulation allowing you to either use with a partner, synchronising your play or exploring your own body during a solo session.
Pros: It looks like a glass dildo but is made of flexible TPE.
Cons: As it's transparent it's easy to lose in the bed.
Made from: TPE.
Technology: None.
Number of settings: 0.
Battery type: None needed.
Waterproof? Yes.
Smart Wand 2, WAS £179 NOW £125, Lelo
Why we love it: Get in touch with your body (or theirs) and experience unparalleled relaxation as you indulge with the most luxurious full-body massager.
Pros: It covers a wide area.
Cons: External stimulation only.
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: Vibrations.
Number of settings: 10.
Battery type: Lasts up to 4 hours, rechargeable.
Waterproof? Yes.The Poet, WAS £119.95 NOW £95.95, Beauty Bay
Why we love it: Made from a single piece of silicone, The Poet comes with three interchangeable ‘mouths’ and squeeze sensors to allow you to adjust the toy's intensity to suit your needs. With a 100% waterproof and rechargeable body, making it safe for use in the bath and shower, this super smooth toy is an essential for anyone with a vagina.
Pros: It has five pulsation modes.
Cons: Although it's on sale, it's quite expensive.
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: Pulsations.
Number of settings: 5.
Battery type: USB rechargeable.
Waterproof? Yes.Save when you shop for lesbian sex toys with these Beauty Bay discount codes at checkout.
Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set, £69.99, Amazon
Why we love it: Strap in and enjoy shared pleasure with LoveHoney's Happy Rabbit strap-on harness kit. Offering a whopping 15 vibration functions for both of you, and a fully adjustable harness, this set is the one for couples looking to spice up their sex life.
Pros: The adjustable harness fits waists up to 67 inches.
Cons: It sells out regularly, so be quick if you want it!
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: Vibrations.
Number of settings: 15.
Battery type: Rechargeable.
Waterproof? Yes.Smile Makers The Ballerina, £119.95, LookFantastic
Why we love it: With its soft and squishy yet firm bounce, the blue, egg-shaped vibrator cups and seductively massages the entire vulva area (from the clitoral glans to the vaginal entrance) to take you from first to fifth position in seconds.
Pros: It's small (i.e. good to travel with) and discreet.
Cons: It can be tricky to get a good grip on it while using.
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: Vibrations.
Number of settings: Multiple.
Battery type: USB rechargeable.
Waterproof? Yes.Save when you shop for lesbian sex toys with these LookFantastic discount codes at checkout.
Perfect Pair Silicone Nipple Suckers, £9.99, Lovehoney
Why we love them: Less than £10, which is arguably our favourite factor, these suction cup toys are designed to give pleasure on the nipple area and are sure to increase the steam levels in the bedroom.
Pros: Good for beginners or people who want to start slow.
Cons: You're limited on where you can use them.
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: None.
Number of settings: 0.
Battery type: None needed.
Waterproof? Yes.Smile Makers The Billionaire, WAS £49.95 NOW £42.45, Beauty Bay
Why we love it: This internal and external vibrator is the ultimate investment in your orgasms. Boasting four different speeds and two pulsation modes, you’re guaranteed to find a setting that will please you while masturbating and your partner during foreplay and beyond.
Pros: It provides four hours of fun.
Cons: It only has four different speeds.
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: Vibrations.
Number of settings: 4.
Battery type: AA battery (not included).
Waterproof? Yes.Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit with 3 Realistic Dildos, £49.99, Lovehoney
Why we love it: Pick your own penis with this unisex harness kit, an all-in-one set for strap-on sex that's ideal for experimentation. Each dildo aims to target specific areas for G-spot stimulation as well as external stiumlation.
Pros: The harness is crotchless.
Cons: One customer said the base of the dildos sometimes felt uncomfortable against her vagina.
Made from: Soft plastic (contains latex).
Technology: None.
Number of settings: 0.
Battery type: None needed.
Waterproof? Yes.Save when you shop for lesbian sex toys with these LoveHoney discount codes at checkout.
Rock My World Sex Toy Kit (6 Piece), WAS £79.99 NOW £47.99, Lovehoney
Why we love it: This six piece sex toy kit includes everything you heart (and erogenous zones) desires from a vibrating magic wand to a penis-length butt plug. Whether you're playing solo or with a companion, the Rock My World set will make your body shake and quake.
Pros: There's something for everyone included.
Cons: Some pieces require batteries.
Made from: Silicone.
Technology: Vibrations.
Number of settings: Multiple.
Battery type: 1 x USB rechargeable, 2 x AAA batteries and 1 x AA battery (not included).
Waterproof? Splashproof.Save when you shop for lesbian sex toys with these LoveHoney discount codes at checkout.
Double Lover Double Penetration Vibrator, £19.99, Lovehoney
Why we love it: Climax with one hand behind your back courtesy of this multi-speed toy. A dual-shafted vibrator boasting effortless operation, with a realistic shaft and beaded anal prober, enjoy all-encompassing stimulation of your sweetest of spots.
Pros: It's latex free and targets two areas for the price of one.
Cons: It requires batteries.
Made from: PVC.
Technology: Vibrations.
Number of settings: Multiple speeds.
Battery type: 2 x AA batteries (not included).
Waterproof? No.Save when you shop for lesbian sex toys with these LoveHoney discount codes at checkout.
