11 best remote control vibrators 2025, reviewed by GLAMOUR's sexual wellness writers
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There's no shame in admitting that your sex life has gone a little stale. Enter: the best remote control vibrators, designed to amp-up your next partnered interaction. Perfect for upping the intimacy and playing into the excitement of your significant other being in control, hands-free sex toys are primed for introducing new sensations or trying something totally new.
Here's a quick reminder that experimentation with a partner (safely and consensually, of course) is a great way to boost the trust and connection between you. “Using one during partner play can create a stronger sexual connection between couples because you have to trust that your partner won’t abuse the remote and their power," details Sex & Relationships Expert, Dr Tara Suwinyattichaiporn.
So, for those sold on the idea of using a remote control vibrator come date night, you'll need a sex toy that comes with a wireless remote or one that can be managed via an app. To help you track down the best vibrators for couples, we — the wider GLAMOUR team and their willing partners — have trialled a whole host before listing our top-rated below. So, whichever one you pick, as long as you ensure you've gained consent and are power-playing safely (for example, with the help of a safeword), you both win.
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How we tested the best remote control vibrators for 2025:
We — a team of more than 30 lifestyle and commerce writers — scrutinised every detail, including power, material quality, value for money and delivery (was it both speedy and discreet?), plus read hundreds of good and bad reviews, to determine if, ultimately, we'd spend our own cash on each of the remote-control vibrators we trialled. Those that got a resounding yes are listed below.
Our writers and editors occupy various positions on the gender identity and sexuality spectrums. At the time of testing, they were aged between 25 and 40, plus had differing levels of experience with sex toys. Yes, we roped in everyone from total beginners to connoisseurs.
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Ahead, our edit of the best remote control vibrators for 2025, approved by GLAMOUR's sexual wellness writers:
LELO LYLA 2 Vibrating Bullet Massager
Pros:
- A multi-use marvel, you get to choose to label whether you label this a bullet vibrator, clit vibrator or love egg.
- Super lightweight — we're talking less than 40 grams.
- One fan wrote: “Gentle and smooth vibrations that carry an intensity unmatched by anything we have tried before.”
Cons:
- The glossy side of the remote can get a little slippery when wet.
If your priority is finding a quiet vibrator, then you're in luck — the LYLA is virtually undetectable once under the sheets, and even more so once sat inside the vagina (don't panic, that inch-long loop makes for an easy retrieval). But she's also super simple to use — just direct it at any erogenous zone for targeted vibrations. And unlike some vibrators which only offer variety in terms of pulsing pattern, this comes programmed with eight modes, all tailorable in terms of their intensity. Although you may not get much say once your partner starts to play…
- Type: Bullet vibrator.
- In the box: Wireless remote control, USB-charging cable, satin storage pouch, warranty registration card, a detailed instruction manual and two AAA batteries for the remote.
- Material: Body-safe silicone and ABS plastic.
- Length: 3.2 inches.
- Insertable length: 3.1 inches.
- Power: Vibrator: USB-rechargeable, Remote: 2 x AAA batteries (included).
- Run time: Vibrator: Up to 2 hours, Remote: Up to 10 hours.
- Waterproof? 100%.
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Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Love Egg Vibrator
Pros:
- Up to 5 hours of action per charge.
- One fan-girl shared: “Possibly our favourite toy in our collection — A**!”
Cons:
- You're limited to 3 speeds and 4 patterns when not using the Lovense App.
Love egg vibrators are toys designed to be inserted into the vagina to stimulate your/her G-spot — this is yet another quality sex gift — and so are often considered to be an accessory best suited to solo self-care sessions. However, like a vibrating cock ring, these vibrators can also amplify the sensations felt during penetrative sex. Simply slide in the toy before getting up close and personal with your lover. Or engage in a spot of power play and let your partner call the (pleasurable) shots. Either way, we should also mention that the Lush 3 delivers strong, rumbly sensations that can be synced to your favourite tunes — say, Gracie Abram's That's So True.
- Type: Love egg vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable.
- Material: Silicone.
- Length: 8 inches.
- Insertable length: 3.5 inches.
- Power: USB-rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 5 hours.
- Waterproof? Submersible.
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We-Vibe Pivot Vibrating Couples' Ring
Pros:
- Pre-programmed with 11 vibration patterns, including an intermittent ‘tempo’ mode and a teasing ‘ramp.’
- Up to 2 hours of play per charge.
Cons:
- No wireless remote, so check your phone's charged and your Bluetooth is turned on.
- A little tight on wider members.
If you're one part of a heterosexual match, this cock ring is an easy way to amp up the sensations during penetration. While working to strengthen his erection by limiting blood flow back down the penis, it also directs pleasurable pulses at her clitoris, courtesy of that raised nub. Plus, goodbye trying to locate the (often tiny) controls during play, as this can be controlled hands-free via the We-Vibe App. The perk our Sexual Wellness Writer, Sophie, constantly cites though? The fact this is technically three toys for the price of one, considering it can also be used as a finger vibrator (just wrap it around your digits) and a clit vibrator.
- Type: Vibrating cock ring.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, quick start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 2.8 inches.
- Power: USB-rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Waterproof? 100%.
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Muse by Coco de Mer — Remote Panty Vibe
Pros:
- Powered by intuitive single-button controls.
- While appearance is second on our list of priorities (behind power), the caramel silicone gives this seriously premium look.
Cons:
- Beware of misplacing that very mini remote.
You'll likely know the female-founded, London-based brand Coco De Mer for its intricately designed lingerie. But the brand also has a collection of premium playthings that are perfect for gifting, every vibe lined with two layers of velvety silicone. The Remote Panty Vibe offers 10 vibey routes to orgasm — although it doesn't leave your partner out of the fun, as the wireless remote doubles as a vibrator too. And while there's no magnet to keep this one in place, its ergonomic design ensures it nestles securely between your legs.
- Type: Knicker vibrator or clitoral vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, wireless remote control, replacement magnetic clip, storage bag, a quick start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 3.6 inches.
- Power: USB-rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Waterproof? 100%.
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We-Vibe Moxie+ Wearable Clitoral Vibrator
Pros:
- While we can't encourage play in public, this one is discreet in terms of its noise level and size.
- That (strong) magnetic means this works with any style of underwear.
- Go hands-free with the wireless remote or the We-Vibe App.
Cons:
- Some say the Bluetooth connection can be a little temperamental.
Designed to sit between your underwear and your clit, the Moxie+ is designed for hands-free external teasing — whether playing with your partner in close proximity or your long-distance lover over FaceTime. Designed to nestle between your inner lips, she should stay in place — although that strong magnetic clip (and the replacement included in every box) offers extra support. Offering 10 rumbly vibration modes — everything from gentle to giant waves of pleasure, and more for those who opt to control it via the We-Vibe App — she's a great option for both experienced players and beginners alike.
- Type: Knicker vibrator or clitoral vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, wireless remote control, replacement magnetic clip, storage bag, a quick start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 3.6 inches.
- Power: USB-rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Waterproof? 100%.
LELO TIANI 3 Remote-Controlled Couples’ Massager
Pros:
- That remote works up to a distance of 12 metres.
- Whisper quiet, maxing out at 50 dB (FYI, your Dyson Airwrap gets as loud as 70 dB).
- Like most LELO toys, this shuts off after 20 minutes of inactivity to limit distractions.
Cons:
- A (worthy) splurge.
It may be expensive, but the TIANI 3 is a worthwhile investment if you're looking some a sex toy to become a regular member of your raunchy rotation. It's sleek, soft to the touch and simple to use — that three-button interface is absolutely intuitive), plus comes fitted with eight different teasing settings — everything from gentle and persistent to intermittent tremors. Prioritising both internal and external pleasure, the exterior arm has been designed to ensure adequate clitoral stimulation — no matter your anatomy. To use, line with water-based lube and slide the larger end in, before inviting your partner to join.
- Type: Wearable C-shaped vibrator.
- In the box: Wireless remote control, USB-charging cable, satin storage pouch, warranty registration card, a detailed instruction manual and two AAA batteries for the remote.
- Material: Body-safe silicone and ABS plastic.
- Length: 3.1 inches.
- Insertable length: 3.1 inches.
- Power: Vibrator: USB-rechargeable, Remote: 2 x AAA batteries (included).
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Waterproof? 100%.
Best remote-control G-spot vibrator
3Some Rock N' Grind Remote Control G-Spot Vibrator
Pros:
- Three avenues of stimulation: targeted internal vibrations, a textured grind pad and a rocking base.
- A unique addition we wish every toy had? That positioning strap offers added control and security.
Cons:
- She's splashproof, but we ask you resist the urge to submerge.
The Rock N' Grind is ace at simulating the feeling of being on top — with the added bonus of intense clitoral stimulation via the textured pad. Whether you choose to rock on top while your partner watches on or hand them the controls (a wireless remote fitted with a single button that powers it on/off and cycles through all 10 modes), you'll be treated to rumbly sensations — as opposed to buzzy ones that travel no further than the skin's surface.
- Type: G-spot vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, wireless remote control, and a quick start user guide.
- Material: Silicone.
- Length: 6.8 inches.
- Insertable length: 5.1 inches.
- Power: Vibrator: USB-rechargeable, Remote: 1 x CR1620 battery (included).
- Run time: Up to 90 minutes.
- Waterproof? Splashproof.
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Lovehoney Booty Shaker Remote Control Butt Plug
Pros:
- Offers 10 pulsing patterns, each with 6-speed options.
- The T-bar base prevents the plug from going too far and shares the sensations with your (super-sensitive) perineum.
- That remote comes with a range of between 3 and 5 metres.
Cons:
- Not especially premium — but perfect for beginners who may not want to invest just yet.
- You'll have to cycle through all 10 modes to get back to your favourite.
Beginners: are you looking to explore new areas with ease? This vibrating butt plug from Lovehoney comes fitted with a tapered tip that aids a super easy insertion, so all you have to focus on is which of the 10 patterns is your fave. Being unisex, we insist you share — but only after proper cleaning (easiest with one of the best sex toy cleaners), and while we don't love that this one's battery-operated, it's a great introduction to remote-control teasers… or sex toys and the benefits of using an automated aid in general.
- Type: Butt Plug.
- In the box: Wireless remote control, one AAA battery, one CR2032 battery and a detailed instruction manual.
- Material: Silicone.
- Length: 4.5 inches.
- Insertable length: 4 inches.
- Power: Vibrator: 1 x AAA battery, Remote: 1 x CR2032 battery (included).
- Waterproof? Submersible.
Best remote-control rampant rabbit vibrator
We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator
Pros:
- Offers simultaneous C- and G-spot stimulation in a bid to bring on blended orgasms.
- One review raved: “I'd rate it a 6/5 if that were possible — The fastest orgasm I've had with a toy.”
Cons:
- That magnetic charging cable can be a little temperamental.
The rampant rabbit has been a fan-favourite for years, hopping onto the scene in the 1990s before gaining popularity following Charlotte's declaration of love during Sex and The City. It's designed to bring on a blended orgasm — AKA stimulating two of your erogenous zones at the same time — and is often described as a solo accessory. However, the fact your partner can now take control of the mode and intensity at which it moves means they'll no longer be relegated to the sidelines. Our favourite feature though? The super flexible external arm that ensures it maintains constant contact with your clit.
- Type: Rampant rabbit vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, storage bag, a quick start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 8.5 inches.
- Power: USB-rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Waterproof? 100%.
We-Vibe Chorus Couples Vibrator
Pros:
- Stimulates the G-spot, clitoris and penis simultaneously during sex.
- Bid goodbye to buttons — simply squeeze the remote to up the intensity.
- The three Touch-sense modes allow your movements to manage the vibrations.
Cons:
- Perhaps a little intense for beginners — or those with girth-blessed partners.
If you think you've mastered missionary (and its 467 variations), then you may be looking for a sex aid to keep things interesting. Enter: C-shaped vibrators, worn inside the vagina and designed to send sweet sensations in every direction — including up your partner's penis during penetration, amplifying what both of you feel. Use the remote — also finished in Barbie pink plastic to avoid it going missing among your sheets — to access all 10 modes, or use the We-Vibe App to create custom ones of your own.
- Type: Wearable C-shaped vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, wireless remote control, charging box, a quick start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: ABS plastic and body-safe silicone.
- Length: 3 inches.
- Power: USB-rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 90 minutes.
- Waterproof? 100%.
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Pros:
- Made for mutual masturbation, due to the fact it includes a We-Vibe Moxie+ (worth £119) for those with clits, and a We-Vibe Bond (RRP £119) for penis-havers.
- Both devices are near-silent, and virtually undetectable once under the sheets.
- Those wireless remotes are splashproof, so take your toys to the tub.
Cons:
- Packed with heterosexual pairings in mind.
Ever wondered how your partner plays when you're not around? Engaging in a spot of mutual masturbation can be a really useful tool for discovering what your partner enjoys — while also being a pleasurable experience itself. This couple's sex toy set (a perfect sex gift or Valentine's Day gift for her, might we add) includes a cock ring and a knicker vibrator, both of which can be managed hands-free with the help of their wireless remotes. And with both offering up to two hours of play per charge, may we suggest seeing who can hold out the longest?
- Type: Knicker vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, wireless remote control, replacement magnetic clip, storage bag, a quick start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 3.6 inches.
- Power: USB-rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Waterproof? 100%.
- Type: Vibrating cock ring.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, wireless remote control, storage bag, a quick start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: ABS plastic and body-safe silicone.
- Length: 2.9 inches.
- Power: USB-rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Waterproof? 100%.
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