11 best long-distance sex toys 2025 to keep that sexual spark alive from afar
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You might consider long-distance sex toys to be a bit of a gimmick, one designed and marketed to get you to invest in yet another vibrator. However, I'm going against the age-old saying that ‘distance makes the heart grow fonder' and argue that trying to maintain a certain level of intimacy is a challenge when you're at opposite ends of the country.
From short-term travel to living in separate locations, there are several reasons you and your partner may be connecting over FaceTime rather than with a cuddle. But with the help of the best sex toys for couples, you may be able to feel closer than ever to your partner.
Yep, experimenting with new gadgets and new sensations, sometimes in novel positions or locations, can be really beneficial. Not only is (consensual) erotic exploration fun and exciting — not to mention, sexy — but trusting your partner to tease you can deepen your bond and bring on intense pleasure for you both.
Long-distance sex toys and remote-controlled vibrators are fairly similar in that they can be controlled hands-free with either a wireless aid or your mobile phone via Bluetooth or an app. Available in a host of styles, shapes and sizes, they're a twist on the best-selling clit suckers, clit vibrators, vibrating cock rings and G-spot vibrators we've come to know (and love). Fun fact: The official term for this kind of sex is teledildonics.
A quick reminder that vibrators aren't there to replace your partner. Rather, they're providing sensations they physically can't through Zoom, or offering something totally different — because, if we're honest, the human tongue can't always move quite as fast as one of LELO's cult-favourite clit teasers. So, read on for answers to all your techy FAQs, as well as GLAMOUR's edit of the best long-distance sex toys for couples, whether you enjoy clitoral, G-spot or anal stimulation in 2025.
How we test the best long-distance sex toys:
The GLAMOUR Shopping Team prides itself on creating trustworthy, honest and unbiased reviews for everything we feature, long-distance relationship sex toys included.
When we test a sex toy, we do so during sex and masturbation, looking at it from every angle to best serve you. For our sex toy edits, we consider each product's performance across five primary categories: efficacy (considering things like vibration intensity), battery life, design and feel against the body, ease of use, whether it's waterproof and whether it comes in discrete packaging.
Every sex toy we feature has been determined to have excelled in each category by our editorial team, which is composed of in-house writers and editors of all gender identities, sexualities, preferences and financial situations. In addition to testing each sex toy in every review, we rely on experts who shape their fields, including sexologists and relationship therapists, to help us vet the products. We've also included real-life reviews from people who have tested them.
Ahead, the best long-distance sex toys for 2025, approved by GLAMOUR editors:
We-Vibe Sync 2 Couples Vibrator
Pros:
- Our testers confirm the ribbed internal arm offers intense G-spot stimulation.
- Fitted with 3 speeds and 7 pulsing patterns.
Cons:
- Designed with heterosexual matches in mind, working to boost both partners' pleasure during penetration.
Of all the long-distance vibrators out there, this — and perhaps the We-Vibe Chorus — is probably the most well-known. A wearable vibrator, it features one arm that fits comfortably inside the vagina and another that buzzes on the clitoris — just right for hands-free blended orgasms. Partners can ramp up the vibrations (and your pleasure) through the We-Connect app, which acts like a remote control. And when you’re in the mood for a solo session, it can even buzz in sync with your favourite tunes. As if we could love Reputation any more…
- Type: Wearable C-shaped vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, cotton storage bag, quick-start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 3 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Number of modes: 10.
- Waterproof: 100%.
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Satisfyer Love Triangle Clit Vibrator
Pros:
- Stimulates the clitoris with a (delicious) combo of pressure waves and vibration.
- Comes pre-programmed with 21 settings, including a ‘whisper mode’ that's virtually undetectable under the sheets.
- That removable, protective cap means it's primed for travel.
Cons:
- That magnetic charging cable has a habit of slipping out of place.
Long-distance couples don’t have to miss out on oral sex. The circular mouth on this ergonomic clit sucker totally surrounds your clitoris before directing powerful airwaves at it from every angle. Then, when your partner opens Satisfyer Connect, they get the option to choose one of the 10 pre-programmed vibration modes and 11 intensities or explore the unlimited options exclusively available on the app. And since this toy is waterproof, you can even enjoy a digital tryst in the bath.
- Type: Clit vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable and user manual.
- Material: ABS plastic, Silicone.
- Length: 3.4 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 1 hour.
- Number of modes: 11 pressure wave intensities and 10 vibration settings.
- Waterproof: 100%.
We-Vibe Moxie + App and Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Knicker Vibrator
Pros:
- Designed for discreet pleasure.
- Charges to full in as little as 90 minutes.
- Works with most styles of underwear, thanks to that magnetic fixture.
Cons:
- Offers widespread sensations rather than targeted teasing.
If you’re feeling adventurous and want to experience pleasure outside the privacy of your bedroom, this panty vibrator provides a discreet way to test the waters. It has a magnet that keeps it securely inside your underwear while your partner dials up the pleasure with the accompanying app. The rumbles — yep, this is all about low-frequency vibrations that travel further down the length of the clitoris — come in 10 different vibration modes. Enough to satisfy sex toy beginners and experts alike.
- Type: Knicker vibrator.
- In the box: Spare magnetic clip, USB-charging cable, quick start user guide, wireless remote control, 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube, and a satin storage bag.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 3.6 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Number of modes: 10.
- Waterproof: 100%.
LELO TIANI Harmony Dual-Action Couples’ Massager
Pros:
- Like all LELO toys, this automatically shuts off after 20 minutes of inactivity, so fewer distractions if you move on from foreplay.
- Super lightweight — we're talking less than 50 grams.
Cons:
- Reframe the splurge as an investment in your sexual satisfaction.
LELO's waterproof, app-enabled toy gives equal love to your G-spot and your clitoris, meaning you’re in for a doozy of a climax — otherwise known as a blended orgasm. For heterosexual couples (or those who enjoy using a strap-on), it will also send pleasurable vibrations up the length of their penis, amplifying the sensations for both. And thanks to its two-hour battery life, it’s built for from-afar rendezvous of any length.
- Type: Wearable C-shaped vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cord, satin storage pouch, warranty registration card and a detailed instruction manual.
- Material: PC and ABS plastic, body-safe silicone.
- Length: 3.5 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Number of modes: 10.
- Waterproof: 100%.
We-Vibe Melt App Controlled Clitoral Stimulator
Pros:
- Its slim, ergonomic shape means it won't get in the way during partnered play (AKA doggy or spooning)
- The use of Pleasure Air Technology means teasing with no touching, and therefore no chance of numbing
Cons:
- Exclusively for those with vulvas — although he should get a kick out of seeing you dancing in the sheets.
This one's for fans of clit suckers — which, following the launch of the Lovehoney Rose in 2022, is most of us — which often use a combination of contactless vibration and airwaves to get you off. The Melt, working in a fairly similar way, also gives your partner the option to change the mode from afar via the We-Vibe App. It's also virtually silent — ideal for those living in close quarters, at home or at university.
- Type: Clit sucker.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, satin storage bag, quick-start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 5 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Number of modes: 12.
- Waterproof: 100%.
We-Vibe Jive 2 App Controlled Love Egg Vibrator
Pros:
- Delivers rumbly, rather than. buzzy (and near silent) sensations.
- Take it to the tub or shower, this one can be submerged — up to one meter and for around 30 minutes — with no issues.
Cons:
- Watch you don't hit that front-facing single button when using it during penetration.
This hands-free play love egg vibrator is designed to stay in place no matter how much the vibrations make you squirm with delight. You could argue that makes it prime retail for those who enjoy playing in public spaces (we're not endorsing this, simply explaining that you have the option). Again, this one can be controlled entirely hands-free via the We-vibe app or the wireless remote. Even better news: regular use of your love egg vibrator could strengthen your vaginal and pelvic floor muscles, increasing your sensation and boosting your orgasm power.
- Type: Love egg vibrator.
- In the box: Wireless remote control, USB-charging cable, quick start user guide and a cotton storage pouch.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 4 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 4 hours.
- Number of modes: 10.
- Waterproof: 100%.
We-Vibe Vector+ Prostate Massager
Pros:
- Bend that second, longer arm in any direction — this one's super flexible.
- One review raved: "This definitely changed my view on prostate toys. I didn't think an orgasm could ever feel that good."
Cons:
- It's potentially a little wide for backdoor beginners.
This prostate massager is designed to simultaneously hit the P-spot — sometimes known as the male G-spot — and the perineum (the small patch of very sensitive skin between your genitals and anus). The result? Hopefully bigger, bolder orgasms. And because a partner can control everything from the brand’s app, your hands will be free to focus on sexting.
- Type: Prostate vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable, cotton storage bag, quick-start user guide and a 2ml sample of We-Vibe lube.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 4.5 inches.
- Insertable length: 4 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Number of modes: 10.
- Waterproof: 100%.
Lovense Nora App Controlled Rotating Rabbit Vibrator
Pros:
- Built for blended orgasms.
- That rotating head works to replicate your partner's best penetrative work — or an authentic two-finger massage.
- Sync the sensations to your favourite tunes… including Taylor.
Cons:
- Perhaps a little intense for beginners.
Aside from Bluetooth-enabled partner control, other cool features of this rabbit vibrator include its rotating head, rippled shaft for added sensation, and flexible mini arm, all of which ensure your G-spot and clitoris are suitably stimulated. The USB-rechargeable toy is made of water-resistant, body-safe silicone and can be paired with other Lovense toys — essentially, you can make their toy react in line with yours.
- Type: Rabbit vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable and user manual.
- Material: Body-safe silicone.
- Length: 9.53 inches.
- Insertable length: 4.72 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 4 hours.
- Number of modes: Unlimited when using the Lovense Remote app.
- Waterproof: 100%.
MysteryVibe Crescendo 2 Flexible Vibrator
Pros:
- Fitted with 6 powerful motors for powerful vibrations at every (and any) angle.
- Can be used to stimulate six different erogenous zones — including the clit, G-spot, P-spot and nipples.
Cons:
- Some fans say the Bluetooth connection can be a little temperamental.
MysteryVibe’s super-flexible vibrator houses six (!) motors — in my three years as a sexual wellness writer, that may be the highest I've ever seen or heard of — and can be moulded into endless shapes, all while your significant other controls each vibration from anywhere in the world. It’s waterproof and shockingly similar to the sensation of fingers — but it beats the real thing by never cramping up and rumbling with 16 unique intensities. If you and your partner love to get creative, this toy is worth the investment.
- Type: Customisable vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable and user manual.
- Material: ABS plastic, Silicone.
- Length: 8.7 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 2 hours.
- Number of modes: 12 preset modes, each with 16 possible intensities.
- Waterproof: 100%.
Lovense Max 2 App Controlled Rechargeable Vibrating Male Masturbator
Pros:
- This one's a dual-action teaser, offering both targeted vibrations and external stimulation via that textured sleeve.
- The air pump works to mimic authentic vaginal contractions.
Cons:
- It's not the most aesthetic option — but will likely pass as a Bluetooth Speaker.
One for your partner-with-a-penis, this male masturbator is an intense upgrade on the classic solo handjob. The sophisticated masturbation sleeve comes lined with ribs, dips and bumps to stimulate his entire length, as well as a powerful vibrating motor and customisable pressure sensors to simulate the contractions of a real vagina. Penis sleeves don’t get much more high-tech — or pleasurable — than this.
- Type: Male masturbator.
- In the box: Neutral hole inner sleeve, a USB-charging cable and user manual.
- Material: ABS and TPE plastic.
- Length: 9.5 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 1.5 hours.
- Number of modes: Unlimited when using the Lovense Remote app.
- Waterproof: 100%.
Kiiroo Pearl2+ G-spot Vibrator
Pros:
- It's slightly curved shape mimics the body's natural contours for a more comfortable fit.
- The vibrations don't kick in until the toy has been inserted, meaning fewer distractions when playing with a partner.
Cons:
- Just 90 minutes of play per charge — although that's twice as long as the previous model.
For the vulva-owners who enjoy orgasm from penetration alone — recent research reports that only 18.4% of women report that intercourse alone is sufficient to orgasm — then this G-spot toy may be a wise option when playing away from your partner. Again, it connects to an app, preventing the struggle to locate small, out-of-sight buttons, and can be synced to videos (AKA ethical porn), VR, or Kiiroo's live webcams. The toy itself is primed for delivering powerful vibrations, this latest iteration featuring a motor that extends to the tip.
- Type: G-spot vibrator.
- In the box: USB-charging cable and quick start guide.
- Material: ABS plastic, silicone.
- Length: 7.9 inches.
- Power: USB rechargeable.
- Run time: Up to 1.5 hours.
- Number of modes: Unlimited when using the FeelConnect App or Feel Webcam.
- Waterproof: 100%.
What are the benefits of using long-distance sex toys as a couple?
We've briefly mentioned them above, but here's a reminder of the many physical and mental benefits of using (the best) sex toys regularly: “When distance keeps you apart, staying connected intimately can be tricky, but that’s where long-distance sex toys come in," details Annabelle Knight, Sex & Relationships Expert at Lovehoney.
“Sex toys have evolved to cater to all our needs and these clever gadgets allow you to share pleasure, deepen your bond, and keep the passion alive, even when you are miles apart. Some of these toys even have app-controlled features and offer real-time interaction, letting you and your partner take control and enjoy pleasure together from anywhere in the world.”
And the benefits of using sex toys more generally, including during solo sex and masturbation?
“Whether you’re flying solo or playing with a partner, sex toys can enhance your pleasure in countless ways," continues Knight.
"They help you learn what feels good, boosting body confidence and sexual satisfaction. With a partner, toys can make intimacy more adventurous, helping you explore sensations and experiences that hands alone might not deliver.
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Top tips for partners open to using long-distance sex toys:
“Before diving in, chat about boundaries and preferences," urges Knight. "Discuss what excites you both and agree on what kind of toys you want to use and how to use them in a way that feels comfortable and enjoyable.”
“If it’s your first time using a connected toy, take it slow and familiarise yourself with the app and controls. This helps build confidence and anticipation for when the fun really starts.”
“Don’t rely solely on toys — combine them with dirty talk, video calls, or even role play to create a multi-sensory experience.”
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Selecting the right sex toy for you — while we can share our (rave) reviews, it's about what you like and value in a teaser. That's because style, size, power and volume may all influence the level of pleasure you and your partner feel.
“It’s important to select a toy that fits your preferences. For example, the We-Vibe Sync 2 Couples Vibrator is perfect for hands-free clitoral and G-spot stimulation, allowing your partner to control it via app for dual pleasure,” expands Knight.
“The We-Vibe Jive Love Egg Vibrator offers discreet internal stimulation, ideal for playful daily teasing. And the Lovense Nora Rabbit Vibrator combines rotation and vibration for a fully immersive experience.”
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