23 considerate thank you gifts to show your gratitude this Christmas
You've got to strike the perfect balance when shopping for thank you gifts: what shows your appreciation but also doesn't prompt another present in return? It's easy to fall into that trap of thinking ‘the bigger, the better'. But, really, it's the thought that counts.
Keen for some examples? Well, I tend to say the best thank you gifts are things the recipient wouldn't buy themselves. Like a luxury matcha powder set or coffee gifts and cups to help romanticise their morning routine. Or, if you've been witness to the fact that their home is their pride and joy, how about a luxe wool blanket — or even a wearable option to level up their Sunday sofa sessions?
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And for those wondering why they can trust my recommendations — I've been a gift guide writer for the last three years, but verbally praised for my choices for decades. In fact, my brothers have even started calling me their Christmas gift consultant.
So, whether you're seeking a thoughtful thank you gift for your parents to show your appreciation for all they do, a bridesmaid gift to say ‘cheers’ for the months of emotional support, or a wine gift to take to dinner at their house, I've shared my gift ideas below — including multiple gifts under £100 and gifts under £50, too.
So, read on for my carefully curated edit of the best thank you presents for 2025, including letterbox flower bouquet, luxury gift hampers, and personalised keepsake gifts they'll cherish forever. And yes, most are available for next-day delivery or standard delivery before Christmas.
How I choose the best thank you gifts & why you can trust me:
Having been a commerce writer for the last three years, and a gift guide writer for just over two, it's fair to say that I'm in the know about the best gifts for anyone (and everyone) on your list. In fact, I was recently asked to share my tips live on on Radio 4, where I suggested we collectively skip novelty socks in exchange for a DIY gift hamper or, you guessed it, a well-considered experience gift.
I've also spent the last six months attending countless press days and have personally chatted with various experts about 2025 shopping trends to ensure I'm clued up on the best Christmas gifts for 2025.
But also, because I wouldn't recommend anything to you that I wouldn't to a pal, I aim to personally review as many products as possible. Once they arrive in my hands, I consider the following:
| Design | Is it practical, fit for purpose and aesthetic? |
| Price point | Would I be willing to spend that much? Is it good quality? |
| Delivery | How quickly did it arrive, and what were the associated costs? |
| Giftability | Would this make a suitable birthday or Christmas gift? Is it something the recipient actually wants, needs and would enjoy? |
Ahead, the best thank you gifts, handpicked by Glamour's gifting editor.
Among our friends, we've ditched handing over a bottle of wine at the front door. Instead, I signed them up for this subscription, which delivers a fresh 500ml pouch of olive oil straight to their front door every month or two. Even better news: the oil is always consciously-sourced from small-scale, regenerative farms that are at least 50% female-led.
The adult version of the Oodie, this snuggly wearable blanket is primed for Sundays spent binge-watching Netflix's new releases. It's the kind of thing your giftee would never buy themselves, but is bound to appreciate — especially over Twixmas, where we exist in a rotation of pyjamas and loungewear.
It's been well documented that Gen Z are drinking less, with 21.5% not drinking at all, and 39% only boozing occasionally (we're talking up to three times a month). So, if you're struggling to know what to bring for your sober hosts, let it be this: Fortnum & Mason's Sparkling Tea, inspired by eight of its famous rare brews. In terms of flavour, think tropical fruits, lemongrass, water mint and jasmine.
This cutlery has been all over my FYP for weeks, so I'm certain my sister's spotted it too. To thank her for helping me move house earlier this year — she drove the van, painted 90% of my living room, and did my first food shop while I unpacked box after box — I'm seriously considering this tortoise shell serving set. Plus, I'll likely benefit when I'm next round for dinner…
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5/23If tasked with bringing a course to your next family gathering, why not make it extra special so it doubles as a thank-you gift for your hosts, too? This edible bundle is a feast of cheeses, chutneys, crackers and chocolate. My personal highlights? The Black Bomber Cheddar truckle, paired with the Fig & Apple Chutney. Delish.
A scented candle is always appreciated — but a designer option from the brand behind the iconic Puzzle bag? Please. Plus, there are countless scent and colour options to choose from. Personally, I'm in favour of earthy Beetroot, packed inside an aubergine ribbed (and reusable) holder. If seeking a luxury gift to reward their kindness, this is it.
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Moicha Full Ceremonial Matcha Tea Gift Set
If your best friend can't get through the day without a matcha, you know this is the gift to give. Packed with everything she needs to make her own Blank Street-esque beverage at home, it includes a bamboo whisk, whisk holder, metal strainer and pink ceramic mixing bowl. What better way to thank her for analysing your latest text exchange with a ghoster or sharing the contents of her wardrobe?
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Tortoiseshell Wellbeing Pod Luxe Essential Oil Diffuser
To spare me regular doses of FOMO, can we collectively agree to spend January hunkering down and recharging at home? An essential diffuser is primed for that, gently dispelling their favourite relaxing essential oil. But this limited edition, hand-blown glass-topped option also features a dimmable light and a Breathing Mode, guiding your parents through NEOM’s signature 7/11 breathing technique. If you're keen to thank your parents for all they do, this is a top-tier option.
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NEOM Wellbeing Happiness Reed Diffuser
Spare your hosts the pre-dinner party anxiety by gifting them a reed diffuser to effortlessly scent their home. This NEOM option comes infused with seven different essential oils, including neroli, mimosa and lemon, all praised for helping to balance emotions and incite feelings of positivity.
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Flowers are a sweet gift, but serotonin is often short-lived. Thankfully, this peace lily can live for up to five years — plus is delivered straight to their door in an on-trend seagrass jute basket, too. With its air purifying powers and unfussy personality, you could say every home needs one.
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11/23Best thank you gift under £50
19 Momme Oxford Envelope Silk Pillowcase
In my opinion, the ideal thank-you gift is a small luxury that the recipient probably wouldn't have purchased for themselves. Case in point: the silk pillowcase is a small investment, but one that will vastly improve their sleep, helping to keep them cool, while also limiting damage to their hair and absorption of their PM skincare.
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12/23Best jewellery gift for her
What says ‘I appreciate you’ better than a gift inspired by constellations, said to symbolise hope, light and divine guidance? This 18ct gold-plated recycled brass cuff offers a dose of quiet luxury. Plus, being lightweight and easy to stack, she'll reach for it daily.
Supper Stories Dinner Party Game
If they host often, they'll be used to prompting interesting table talk. But this party game from Papier supplies them with plenty of meaningful prompts. Examples include ‘who’s most likely to have a detailed five-year plan?' or ‘Who’s most likely to change their career?' It'll help them get to know their pals better and simultaneously decorate their table.
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Perfect Morning Coffee Cup Set of 2
What's better than one Anna + Nina coffee cup? A set of two, decorated with sweet nothings. Whether they use it to hold their AM espresso or a creamy cappuccino, this will make their coffee routine just a bit more enjoyable.
Nothing finishes off a living room like a cosy wool throw. This 70% recycled wool — the other 30% made up of mixed fibres saved from landfill — will keep them cosy all winter long. But it'll also add some personality to their sacred space, thanks to the seven vibrant colourway options.
Not a single one of my pals would turn down a Spicy Margarita. But the effort to make a pitcher of the good stuff is a little too much to handle on Christmas Day or NYE. Thankfully, this gift set includes a Mojito, Cosmopolitan, a classic Marg, as well as the aforementioned chilli-infused cocktail. All they'll need to supply is a glass and ice!
Pink Multi Bob Salt or Pepper Mill
It's actually the first thing I bought for our new home. However, most forgo upgrading their salt and pepper mills in exchange for top-quality necessities — a new duvet, a sofa, etc. Therefore, an Addison Ross upgrade is the ideal way to thank your sister for letting you crash on her couch.
Whispering Angel Côtes de Provence Rosé
Seeing as you probably drank them dry, it would be rude not to refill their wine rack. I'm yet to meet anyone who doesn't like a bottle of Whispering Angel. Yes, it's a small splurge, but its full-bodied, fruity flavour and pale colour are sure to be appreciated.
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A typical side effect of a dinner party? Spilt drinks and stained napkins. So, why not thank them with a fresh set? I love the clashing colours of this striped quad from Dusen Dusen — but even more so that they're 100% and machine washable.
Thank You! Letterbox Message Iced Cookies
Do you sometimes struggle to fill a thank-you card? Me too. Thankfully, these buttery vanilla biscuits, topped with royal marble icing, deliver the message loud and clear and can be delivered straight to their door.
21/23Best thank you gift for bridesmaids
Astrid & Miyu Initial Pavé Pendant Necklace
I can confirm that as a five-time bridesmaid, I don't need another ‘Bride Tribe’ hoodie. Rather, as a thank you for throwing the best hen do ever and adjusting her dress, I'd appreciate something I can wear every day to remind me of our friendship. One such example? This initial necklace from Astrid & Miyu, crafted from 18k gold-plated recycled sterling silver and finished with sparkly cubic zirconias.
If your hosts offer hot sauce with every culinary creation, then it's only right that you gift them a personalised Tabasco holder. Some might even say that it'll bring a spot of polished elegance to the dinner table. Crafted from durable stainless steel, finished with a kitsch scalloped edge and engraved with a message of your choosing, it's a unique personalised gift they're sure to show off to all future visitors.
23/23Best experience thank you gift
Yeah, material gifts are nice — especially if you settle on something that proves just how well you know your giftee. But the chance to escape and ignite a next-level glow? Now that's a thoughtful present. This gift card, valid for 12 months, can be used towards a treatment at any freestanding FACEGYM studio. My personal favourite? The Signature Hands workout focuses on tension release, detoxification and lymphatic drainage.
When should I give a thank-you gift?
Thank you gifts are commonly given after receiving help, whether that's hospitality, a job referral, or support milestone, such as a house move or wedding prep. Of course, it's not expected but often appreciated. But even a card outlining how grateful you are and that you'd be keen to return the favour when the time comes is sure to be well received, too.
How much should I spend on a thank-you gift?
That's dependent on the situation and relationship. I also don't like to set rules when it comes to gift giving — whatever feels right! However, if you are looking for some guidance, I would recommend between £5 and £20 for a small favour, up to £50 if they helped with some professional, and for emotional support during those milestone moments, between £50 and £100 could be considered appropriate.
