The best sex furniture for beginners, approved by GLAMOUR's sexual wellness writer
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For even the most experimental, the prospect of hitting the checkout with a selection of sex furniture can be seriously overwhelming. Because even using a baby bullet vibrator to amplify the feel-good sensations requires prior planning (AKA lube gathering), conversations around consent, and browsing online via the best sex shops for your options.
But sex furniture — sex pillows, swings, chairs and machines — is a great way to experiment with a partner, with power play and domination. But it can also make acrobatic moves more possible: “Sex furniture makes it easier to stay in positions longer, eases strain on parts of the body and joints, and makes it so you don’t have to remake the bed after a romp with your partner,” says Javay Frye-Nekrasova, a sex educator and one of Lovehoney's resident sex experts.
If I'm honest, until a few months ago, I wasn't sold on the idea either. The thought of handing total control over to my partner while suspended via a sex sling? No, thanks. But in the name of research, I've since tested a host of sex accessories, all designed to feed various kinks, fantasies and desires. The result? A newfound sense of confidence — and a very satisfied plus-one.
So, read on for a selection of the best sex furniture for beginners, including over-the-door sex swings and sex wedges to aid deeper penetration, as well as answers to all your FAQs.
A step-by-step guide to satisfaction.
Meet the experts:
| Javay Frye-Nekrasova | An AASECT-certified sex educator for sex-toy retailer, Lovehoney. |
| Carol Queen | A staff expert at online sex-toy shop, Good Vibes. |
| Sofie Roos | A sex educator and relationship therapist. |
| Lisa Finn | A sex educator and brand manager at sex-toy store, Babeland. |
| Amy Johnson | Sex educator and CEO of intimacy retailer, Nox Shop. |
| Gabrielle Kassel | A queer sex educator, GLAMOUR US sex writer and toy tester who owns more than 400 sex toys. |
| Amanda Chatel | A sex writer and GLAMOUR US tester, who’s reviewed more than a thousand toys. |
How we choose the best sex furniture:
The GLAMOUR commerce team, made up of women of all preferences and ages, has been testing a host of sex accessories for the past five years — and after half a decade's worth of thorough reviewing, we know what it takes to make a great finger vibrator, rabbit vibrator, anal sex toy, egg vibrator... the list goes on.
The pieces of sex furniture in our edit were either used during partnered penetrative play, or during solo self-pleasure sessions. For those we have yet to test, we browsed the online reviews and asked industry experts for their seal of approval.
In terms of the critera we rated them against:
- Ease of use — Could our testers work out how to assemble, inflate or involve their sex accessory without a deep dive into the instruction manual?
- Speed and intensity of orgasm — Did use of the sex furniture aid or inhibit pleasurable sensations?
- Design — Was it ergonomic, easy to use and fit for purpose?
- Settings — For those programmed with vibration patterns and various speeds, was there enough variety? Any unique patterns we haven't seen before?
- Volume — AKA how did the sex machine compare with our quiet vibrator?
Ahead, the best sex furniture to shop in 2025, approved by GLAMOUR's sexual wellness writer:
Bondage Boutique Soft Over-The-Door Sex Swing
- What we love: Affordable, comfortable, easy to assemble.
- What’s worth considering: Takes some practice to use.
If you’ve never tried a sex swing, door-mounted or otherwise, there’s a very good explanation as to why some enjoy them. For starters, the person in the swing gets to experience zero-gravity sex. Secondly, another bonus for the person in the swing, they’re at the whim of their partner, creating a power dynamic that can be hot if you’re looking to dabble with BDSM.
But the best part about door swings? They're not freestanding, meaning you do have the door to give you some support. To assemble, simply toss the upper two straps over the door, then close so the acrylic barbells are on the opposite side to the action.
Door-mounted sex swings are some of the cheapest and most discreet pieces you can add to your sex -furniture collection, considering they can be pulled down and rolled into a drawer within seconds.
Type: Sex swing.
Material: Polychloroprene.
Weight limit: 140 kg.
Installation: Place the acrylic barbells on the other side of the door and close to secure.Save when you shop the best sex furniture with these Lovehoney discount codes.
Courtesy of brand- What we love: Design; comfort; machine-washable cover.
- What’s worth considering: It’s a little pricey.
I love Dame’s Pillo. The angular shape provides various heights to experiment with, which definitely comes in handy during oral sex. For example, whoever’s on the receiving end of head can comfortably rest their hips at a height that makes it easier for their partner to orally pleasure them. Plus, Pillo is firm and supportive with just enough of a cushion to make it the ideal pillow for sexual positions like doggy style — whether on the bed or bent over a desk. Instead of having to prop yourself up and tiring out your wrists, Dame’s Pillo lets your body relax at the perfect angle for even anal sex.
It also comes with a machine-washable cover slip that sits over a water-resistant nylon liner, which is an asset. You never know when you might end up accidentally spilling your favourite lube, getting so hot and bothered that excessive sweat becomes part of the equation, or find yourself squirting.
What makes it even more of a must-have, especially for someone like me who often forgets to put things away, is that you can leave it out and no one will know it’s your favourite go-to item for deep and pleasurable penetration.
Type: Sex pillow.
Material: Polyurethane foam, 100% cotton outer shell, nylon water-resistant inner liner.
Weight limit: No limit.
Installation: N/A.Save when you shop the best sex furniture with these Sephora discount codes.
Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer Chair
- What we love: Comfortable; can be dismantled and put away.
- What’s worth considering: If you have bad knees, the angle and the height may be a challenge.
This stool is one of the most compact pieces of sex furniture, and is perfect for homes with limited storage because you can easily take it apart and slide it under your bed. How does it work pre-dismantle, though? While one partner sits on the throne, the other lies beneath. What happens after that is whatever you and your partner are into: oral sex, analingus, or teasing with a dildo or vibrator. And although the frame is made of metal, the straps on which one partner sits are made of reinforced elastic, so as much as you’re able to bounce, you’re also supported.
If oral sex isn’t on the menu, the person on the stool can straddle it and enjoy penetrative sex from behind, taking pressure off the legs and knees, allowing you to switch up positions with ease.
Type: Sex chair.
Material: Metal.
Weight limit: 150 kg.
Installation: Slide the four layers of wide, reinforced elastic over the strong metal frame covered in squishy foam.Save when you shop the best sex furniture with these Amazon discount codes.
- What we love: Offers a lot of position options; great for deep penetration.
- What’s worth considering: You'll need to consider storage.
Arguably, one of the easiest ways to improve your sex life? A sex wedge — specifically, this top-rated high-density foam option, which gets a seal of approval from Frye-Nekrasova and Carol Queen, a staff expert at online sex-toy shop, Good Vibes. Unlike the Dame Pillo, this bundle includes both a standard wedge pillow and a removable ramp that allows you to experience different angles, more lift, or increased stability. “The ramp combo is a versatile position pillow design that lets you raise and angle your body variously depending on what kind of play you feel like engaging in,” Queen explains.
Type: Sex wedge.
Material: Foam, nonslip microfiber case.
Weight limit: No limit.
Installation: N/A.
Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit
- What we love: Easy to install; discreet
- What’s worth considering: It’s a bit pricey for a sling
A step up from more bare-bones sex swings, this adjustable option includes a seat and handles for more comfortable play. Slung over a sturdy-enough door, it’ll hold up to 147 kg and gives so many different positions a fun aerial twist. When you’re finished, it’s super easy to fold up and stow away, leaving behind zero evidence.
Type: Sex sling.
Material: Polychloroprene, acrylic.
Weight limit: 147.4 kg.
Installation: Place the acrylic barbells on the other side of the door and close to secure.The Cowgirl Premium Remote and App Controlled Riding Sex Machine
- What we love: Up to 1200 RPM of ultra-strong vibrations; wired 3m remote or wirelessly via the app up to 30 metres away; 360° swivel rotation.
- What’s worth considering: Expensive.
“Designed to be straddled, this motorised machine can be outfitted with penetrative and nonpenetrative silicone attachments that transmit powerful vibrations to your most sensitive parts,” says Kassel. It’s worth the investment if you love putting on a show, crave something more powerful than a magic wand vibrator, or if you’re interested in exploring kinks like group play or double penetration. When used on the bed instead of the floor, the Cowgirl is also helpful for those who suffer from knee pain. It’s app-enabled, comes with two interchangeable silicone riding attachments for external or blended stimulation, and is pre-programmed with six patterns of vibration to keep you all entertained.
Type: Sex machine.
Material: Silicone.
Weight limit: 181 kg.
Installation: Arrives pre-assembled.- What we love: Fun; comfortable; recliner position.
- What’s worth considering: Holds up to 220 lb.
Sex swings can make playtime easier and more fun for anyone, especially those with mobility issues. This is one of the most supportive options on the market, with a full-body sling that’s able to support up to 100 kg. It’s ceiling-mounted, meaning it requires some DIY work, but the result — AKA mind-blowing orgasms — is well worth the extra effort.
Type: Sex sling.
Material: Nylon.
Weight limit: 100 kg.
Installation: First, secure an eye bolt or a sturdy hook to the ceiling, before attaching the sex sling with the carabiner.- What we love: Somewhat discreet, passing for a '70s-inspired sofa; supportive; washable cover.
- What’s worth considering: Quite pricey.
This sculptural chaise lounge comes highly recommended by both Finn and Frye-Nekrasova. “It is multiuse, allowing for not only comfortable, exciting position exploration but also serving as a convenient reading spot for your favourite erotica to get you in the mood,” says Frye-Nekrasova. You might even be tempted to leave it in your living room.
Type: Sex chaise.
Material: Foam, nonslip microfiber cover.
Weight limit: N/A.
Installation: Simply clear a space (or entire room).
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- What we love: Includes a hole and mount for penetrative play with a vibrator or dildo
- What’s worth considering: Not travel-friendly
“Toy mounts, in particular, are fabulous solo accessories,” says Queen. This pillow mount has a slot that’s the right size to hold a G-spot vibrator or dildo, meaning you don’t need a partner to ride until dawn. If partnered play is in the cards, though, this mount is strong enough to support two people should you want to delve into double penetration. However, more realistically, if you remove the dildo from the slot, it doubles as a great pillow accessory for positions like doggy style or oral sex.
Type: Sex toy mount.
Material: Foam, nonslip micro velvet case.
Weight limit: N/A.
Installation: Arrives pre-assembled.DOMINIX Deluxe Inflatable Sex Position Wedge
- What we love: Inflatable, travel-friendly, and affordable.
- What’s worth considering: It needs to be blown up; not as sturdy as a foam pillow.
This DOMINIX option comes with all the benefits of a traditional sex pillow, except it can be deflated and stashed in your carry-on ahead of a spicy staycation away. Even better news: it features two strong loops for attaching restraints, should you wish to mix things up with a spot of power play. It may not offer quite as much support as a traditional foam pillow, but it's a good option if you can't enjoy penetration without the added height. “It’s super cosy but also super functional,” says Amy Johnson, sex educator and CEO and founder of intimacy retailer Nox Shop.
Type: Sex pillow.
Material: PVC.
Weight limit: No limit.
Installation: Needs inflating.Rio Professional Massage Table
- What we love: Adjustable headrest; deep padded cushioning; folds for easy storage.
- What’s worth considering: Cumbersome for travel.
This top-rated foldable table is the perfect home base for a deeply intimate massage. It’s padded, sturdy, has a comfy headrest, and is easier to wipe clean than, say, bed sheets. Pro tip: Throw in a few massage candles for the best possible experience.
Type: Massage table.
Material: PVC, wood.
Weight limit: 120 kg.
Installation: Needs assembling, but folds for easy carrying.
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What are the different types of sex furniture?
While pillows and wedges may be the first options that come to mind, chairs, swings, sex machines, benches and ramps, slings, and mounts all fall under the sex-furniture umbrella:
| Type | Explainer |
|---|---|
| Sex pillow | Just like a yoga block, the firm pillows help you experiment with sex positions and angles to allow for deeper penetration. Angled and available in a variety of sizes, they're fairly subtle and easy to store. |
| Sex swing | Most commonly made up of two primary straps and stirrups, sometimes with the addition of handles, hand cuffs and a headrest, these are designed for anti-gravity sex. Choose from an over-the-door sex sling or a more sturdy lay-down sex swing. |
| Sex chair | Designed for those keen to experiment with power play and domination, a sex chair — sometimes also known as a queening stool — aid oral sex. They can also be used for restraint or impact play. |
| Sex toy mount | Go hands-free with the help of a sex toy mount, designed to hold your vibrators — best suits to the likes of magic wand vibrators and G-spot vibrators — in a variety of angles, allowing you to trial new positions, locations and voyeurism. |
| Sex machine | Intended to mimic the sensations of sexual intercourse, whether used during solo masturbation, as part of foreplay or as part of your partnered ventures. They’re often mechanised (but not exclusively), and usually consist of a thrust or suction mechanism paired with an attachment, such as a dildo, vibrator, or masturbation sleeve. |
How can sex furniture benefit your sex life?
Sex furniture can help conquer physical limitations, allow for new and exciting sex positions, offer comfort where there wasn’t comfort before, and increase your understanding of sexual pleasure —your own, as well as your partner’s. For example, if you’ve never used a sex pillow to lift your hips up several inches during intercourse, then you’re missing out on penetration that isn’t just extra deep but more comfortable too.
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What to consider when choosing sex furniture:
Sure, a big BDSM table is set to be (deliciously) fun, but if you need to ditch your dining table to make it fit in your home, then it’s not exactly practical. For some furniture, it’s not just about having space but choosing a toy that can hold both your body weight — because a sex swing that can't is virtually redundant.
Is it to take your kinkiness up a notch or to increase the mobility of one or both partners? Once you’re able to answer these questions, then it comes down to examining the features that are best for both your sexual and physical needs — including the quality of the piece’s materials and how easy it is to install.
