I'm a journalist on 26k. I'm saving for a house with my boyfriend – should I feel guilty that he's contributing more? 

Let's talk money. 
Money Matters A Journalist On 26k Trying To Buy A House
Michael Campanella

Welcome to Money Matters: GLAMOUR’s weekly dive into the world of finance. We’re chatting all things personal finance, from contracting rights in the workplace to expert mortgage advice and saving for your first home, to ISAs and dealing with debt, to help empower you to make better choices. Now more than ever, it's important to understand our money, but so many of us feel as if we don't have a handle on it – or worse, feel anxious and scared about money. 

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Maxine* is a 25-year-old journalist who lives in London with her boyfriend. They are saving for a deposit to buy their first home. Her boyfriend earns more, so he contributes more to their rent: he pays £850 and she pays £650. 
They go 50/50 on everything else, as it's important to Maxine not to rely on him. She previously had a higher-paying job, which enabled her to save a deposit fund of £50,000. However, she left that job because it was too competitive and stressful.
She is delaying receiving dental treatment because she is still paying off her initial dental treatment on her credit card, which has contributed to her struggling to save. 
Maxine feels the pressure to save for the house deposit is all on her boyfriend. 
Here, she shares her money diary: 

MY ACCOUNTS

Current account: £197
Savings account: £30,000

MY INCOMINGS

Annual salary pre-tax: £26,000
Annual salary post-tax: £21,178
Monthly wage pre-tax: £1,765
Monthly wage post-tax: £1,320
Other incoming payments: £0

MY OUTGOINGS

Rent/mortgage: £650
Bills: £350
Other: £300
Any student loan/credit cards/overdrafts etc: £10 per month. 

MY MONEY THOUGHTS

My worst money habit: Ordering takeout instead of putting £20 a week in savings.
My biggest money worry: Not being able to save anything, so have no spare cash for emergencies or things like dental treatment.
My financial hopes for the future: To buy a house, and pay for my teeth to be fixed, and just have to worry less each month.
Current money mood: 🥴😮‍💨👿

WHAT MONEY EXPERT MAKALA GREEN SAYS: 

Makala Green is a multi-award-winning Chartered Financial Adviser at Schroders Personal Wealth and has over 18 years of experience in the financial industry. She understands managing money can be complicated and confusing, which is why she is passionate about making financial planning more accessible for all. She is also the Author of The Money Edit; a no shame no blame guide to taking control of your money.

Get your finances in order

Looking to buy a property is a perfect time to get your finances in order. Start by paying off any debts, renegotiating bills, switching providers for a better deal, and shopping around for cheaper food and fuel, including mobile and broadband packages. Also, cancelling any unnecessary or unwanted subscriptions, such as TV and music streaming services, gyms and clubs. Reducing your expenses can boost how much you can borrow. It may not be much, but every little helps! 

I would encourage setting some targets for the property you want to purchase. Think about what kind of property you aim for, where you want to buy, what you can afford in monthly mortgage payments and the deposit required (ideally 5%/10% of the property purchase price). Next, you want to consider how much you can borrow. You can easily do this with mortgage calculators online. Still, an average of 4.5 times your salary will give you a good guide on what most lenders will be willing to lend (subject to credit scoring and financial commitments). Understanding your mortgage needs will provide more clarity and confidence and ensure you take advantage of opportunities to buy sooner.

Shave your spending

One of the most difficult aspects of personal finance is figuring out the best way to sort your spending, especially if you're trying to save big on a small budget. The trick to shaving your spending is to cut back a little in each area rather than taking out big chunks of your budget all at once. Small changes to your day-to-day outgoings can significantly impact your savings. For example, £20 a week on takeouts totals £1,040 yearly. Likewise, from Monday to Friday, £5 a day on lunch or coffee amounts to £1,300 per year. 

Opt for homemade meals or prepare lunch from home and save most of that money instead. Also, take a look at your monthly spending habits. Write down all expenses, then identify the areas you can cut back on, set daily, weekly or monthly spending limits and keep an active track of spending.

Pay yourself first

Saving enough money to buy your own home can seem daunting. The current cost of living and higher house prices make getting on the property ladder even more challenging. The latest Office for National Statistics suggests house prices in the UK have increased by 10.6% over the past year. But don't despair – this doesn't mean buying a home is impossible; it's about working smarter, not harder. Start by setting up a standing order to transfer money into a savings account each month on payday. That way, the money is out of your current account, and you are less likely to be tempted to touch it. Saving for a house is a marathon, not a sprint – and there will be sacrifices along the way – but keep your eye on the prize by being disciplined.

Increase your income

There are countless ways to boost your monthly income, such as a weekend job, babysitting, coaching, copywriting, and affiliate marking; the list is endless. Also, things that take up extra space in your home could earn you extra cash; try sorting your belongings and selling what you don't need on sites such as eBay, Vinted and Facebook Marketplace. It's also a great way to prepare yourself for when moving home. If you want to make more money and still maintain the same job, consider asking for a pay rise. Of course, asking for a salary increase is sensitive and not guaranteed, but you may only get it if you ask. You must plan to evidence the additional value you provide to convince your company that you deserve the increase. Push for a percentage pay rise (i.e. 5% or 10%), which sounds better than a monetary amount.

Make your money work

First-time buyers between 18 and 39 can open up a Lifetime ISA account. You can pay up to £4,000 each tax year into the account. The government then adds a 25% bonus (£1,000 maximum). It's a great way to gain extra money for your property deposit. It's also worth shopping around to get the most attractive savings interest rate on the market, and many comparison sites make this task less tedious. Some top-tier savings interest may have restrictions or strings attached, such as withdrawal limits and caps on contributions. So read the small print and find one that works for you and your savings needs. I recommend speaking with a qualified financial adviser to ensure all your future financial needs are looked after, such as buying a home, building growth for the future, and protecting your income.