Paul Mescal and Gracie Abrams are red-carpet official! Here's their complete relationship timeline

After so many rumours, we finally have confirmation.
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“That’s so true” is what we can finally say about the rumours about musician Gracie Abrams and actor Paul Mescal. In fact, two years in, they’re going as strong and getting way more public with their displays of affection.

Before dating Abrams, Mescal was in a relationship with another beloved musician, Phoebe Bridgers. The pair split in 2023, and she went on to date comedian Bo Burnham. And you’d be forgiven for thinking Mescal was once with his Normal People co-star Daisy Edgar-Jones — they didn’t date, but they are BFFs with insane chemistry. Before Mescal, Abrams was with musician Hayes Bradley.

Now, though, things are looking increasingly serious for Abramscal. Here, take a look back at Gracie Abrams and Paul Mescal’s complete relationship timeline, with the latest updates up top.

Paul Mescal and Gracie Abrams' relationship timeline

February 22, 2026

Now this is what we'd call a red carpet debut. After testing the waters with a joint appearance earlier in the week, the pair upped the PDA at the 2026 BAFTA Awards.

Dressed in Prada, the pair share loving looks and even a peck on the cheek from Abrams to Mescal.

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February 18, 2026

Abrams and Mescal technically make their red carpet debut at a London screening of Paul McCartney - Man on The Run, though it seems more like a test run. Both Abrams and Mescal were dressed casually in mismatched baseball caps as they smiled for the cameras. You can see the photos here.

February 2, 2026

To celebrate the Irish actor’s 30th birthday, Abrams posts a massive dump of intimate photos on Instagram, writing: “My whole heart!!!!!!!!! I love February 2… Happy birthday❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️I love you both more than words could ever describe. Thank you for making everything better," (a friend of hers also shares the birthday).

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The first slide shows Mescal and Abrams kissing in a photo booth, followed by snaps of him staring at her lovingly at dinner, resting his head in her lap, kissing her during a rehearsal, and other tender, intimate moments.

September 2025

Mescal appears on the cover of Rolling Stone magazine. When the interviewer asks why the couple decided to officially confirm their relationship, he says, “I don’t know how to answer that…I actually do have an answer, but everything to do with that is deeply precious to me and I don’t want to.…This isn’t …I don’t really…umm…I want to protect those things fundamentally.”

July 2025

Abrams posts a photo dump of her time at Glastonbury Festival, including her performing the Apple dance for Charli XCX — iconic — and a loved-up photo with her bae, Mescal.

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June 2025

Abrams plays to a massive crowd at Glastonbury that includes Mescal’s Normal People costar and BFF Daisy Edgar-Jones and her boyfriend, Ben Seed. Later that same weekend, Abrams uploaded video of herself to Instagram Stories sitting on Mescal’s shoulders listening to Olivia Rodrigo cover The Cure’s “Friday I’m in Love.”

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April 2025

Sources reveal that Abrams caught Mescal onstage in A Streetcar Named Desire, telling People, “Despite their busy schedules, the couple is making each other a priority.… There’s no denying the strong chemistry between Paul and Gracie, true lovebirds.”

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November 2024

It sorta almost kinda looks like they go red-carpet official? Abrams is on Mescal’s arm at the after-party for the premiere of Gladiator II in Los Angeles (see the pic here).

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CANNES, FRANCE - MAY 21: Gracie Abrams attends the "The History Of Sound" red carpet at the 78th annual Cannes Film Festival at Palais des Festivals on May 21, 2025 in Cannes, France. (Photo by Stephane Cardinale - Corbis/Corbis via Getty Images)Stephane Cardinale - Corbis/Getty Images
October 2024

An insider spots Mescal at Gracie Abrams’s Radio City Music Hall concert, per People.

August 2024

“They’ve been hooking up and it’s still early stages,” a source tells People.

The couple are spotted by eagle-eyed fans in London, according to a post on deuxmoi.

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June 2024

TMZ published photos of the pair at dinner in London and suggests that they may be on a date.

We'll keep you updated as the Paul Mescal and Gracie Abrams love story unfolds.